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When the
Good Lord was creating mothers, He was into his sixth day of
"overtime" when an angel appeared and said, "You’re doing a lot of
fiddling around on this one."
And the
Lord said "Have you read the specs on this order? She has to be
completely washable, but not plastic, have 180 moveable parts - all
replaceable, run on black coffee and leftovers, have a lap that
disappears when she stands up, a kiss that can cure anything from a
broken leg to a disappointed love affair and six pairs of hands,
ears that will hear things she doesn’t want to hear, a mouth that
can gently kiss away scrapes and bruises and yet tear the hide right
off of those who try anything against the best interests of her
child.
Yes, this
model will have to be able to sit patiently and listen to outlandish
reports about her child without flinching. She will have to hear how
hopeless it all is and know that it isn’t so. She will have to have
those kinds of eyes which don’t tear when she hears other mothers
talk about how well things are going for their children." The angel
shook its head slowly and said, "Six pairs of hands, yet? No
way."
"It’s not
the hands that are causing the problems," said the Lord. "It’s the
three pairs of eyes this mother has to have." "That’s on the
standard model?" asked the angel. The Lord nodded and said, " One
pair that sees through closed doors when she asks, "What are you
kids doing in there?" when she already knows. Another pair here in
the back of her head that sees what she shouldn’t but what she has
to know and, of course, the ones here in front that can look at a
child when he goofs up for the 99th time and say, "I understand and
I love you anyway" without so much as uttering a
word.
"Lord,"
said the angel, touching his sleeve gently, "come to bed.
Tomorrow……" "I can’t," answered the Lord, "I am so close to creating
something so close to myself. Already I have one who heals herself
when she is sick, feeds a family of six on one pound of hamburger
and gets her nine-year-old to stand under a
shower."
The angel
circled the model of a mother very slowly. "It’s too soft," it
sighed. "But tough!" said the Lord excitedly. "You cannot imagine
what this mother can do or endure." "Can it think?" asked the angel.
"Not only can it think," said the Creator, "it can reason and
compromise."
Finally,
the angel bent over and ran a finger across the cheek. "There is a
leak," it pronounced. "I told you that you were trying to put too
much into this model." "That’s not a leak, said the Lord, "it’s a
tear." "What’s it for?" asked the angel. "Tears are for joy,
sadness, disappointment, pain, loneliness and pride…..this model
will know a lot about all that." answered the
Lord.
"But you
know" He continued, "I don’t even remember putting that tear there."
"By the way", asked the angel, "what will you call this model?" I
will call this one simply the mother of an autistic
child."
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